Welcome to our first ever blog post!
The musicians at Dream Day Music has been involved in the wedding industry for several years, and it’s about time we shared some knowledge with brides to be! There’ll be regular updates on wedding and event music ideas to come, general wedding-y posts, and probably the occasional rant! There’s a little about Dream Day Music at the bottom of each post, and a link to our website.
Anyway on with the show…
Over the last couple of years, we’ve noticed an increase in the amount of clients who are keen to avoid the wedding music cliches. There’s been a trend in mainstream music recently that has seen a shunning of the norm, and a desire to hear something a little more quirky. Ellie Goulding’s version of ‘Your Song’ was massive; it wasn’t anything particularly special, but it was completely different to the version people have heard oh so many times. Even X Factor (Boo! Hiss!) has been getting in on the act – and, to be fair, making people realise they don’t need to settle with the same old versions of songs – with acts such as James Arthur and his creative takes on recent hit tracks.
You’ve chosen personalised stationery, and decided exactly how you want your venue to look; why shouldn’t you choose exacly how your wedding sounds too? Want to surprise your guests with an unusual take on your wedding music? Here’s how…
Tip 1: Avoid the Cliches: Do Your Research
You’d be amazed how many brides book a musician through us, especially for the ceremony, but have no idea at the time what music they’d like to be played. Subsequently, more often than not, they get back to us with requests for Canon in D. Now, if you really like Canon in D, great! But are you choosing it because you think you should have classical music and it’s the only piece you know? The last soap wedding you watched used it, as did the last film wedding you watched, and they probably used it because it’s ‘public domain’ music and free to use. The last string quartet you heard played it. On your venue’s CD of entrance music for weddings, it’ll be track 1 (and probably track 2 and 3, just played on different instruments!). You get the picture.
If you really want a certain style of music but you don’t really know any in that style, listen to some! You won’t need to buy any. Just get onto YouTube. Type in ‘romantic classical music’; type in ‘chilled out classical music’; type in ‘celebratory classical music’. Hell, if you like it, type in ‘thrash metal’! Which leads nicely to Tip 2…
Tip 2: Use your Favourite Songs
Now there’s a crazy idea, huh?
Some of the best weddings (musically) that we’ve been involved with have used songs that just meant something to the couple. One couple used ‘Romeo and Juliet’ (the bride’s name) by Dire Straits, and exited to Queen’s ‘Don’t Stop Me Now’; another used ‘My Beloved Monster’, a cute little song from Shrek, as signing of the register music. It adds a personal touch, and brings smiles to the faces of those guests who really know you.
Tip 3: Find Truly Talented Musicians
So you want to use ’99 Red Baloons’ in your ceremony, but that won’t sound good played by the pianist you’ve heard, right? Wrong!
Quality musicians or arrangers, should be able to make any song sound good on their instrument. It’s about understanding the instrument and adapting the song to the strengths of the instrument. If someone quotes you a fortune to learn or adapt a song, they’re probably trying to put you off using it in favour of a song they already play. That shouldn’t be the way; look elsewhere and you’ll find someone with the skills to pull it off. Furthermore, if they’re good enough to give you what you need, they’ll be able to do it quickly and cheaply, so it shouldn’t even be a big task for them to send you a short demo, to show you what you’ll be getting.
Lancashire wedding pianist Craig Smith is a professional arranger and session pianist, offering piano versions of any song. Prefer the idea of a solo guitar? Check out Bolton-based Paul Thornton. Both include bespoke arrangements of your favourite songs within their packages.
Tip 4: Look for a Creative Musician, Band or Duo
If you’re going to use songs, the problem with songs is they contain words. Now, even the best pianist can’t make his piano sing! But add vocals to the mix and you’ve got the words too, which is obviously important if it’s the lyrics that mean something to you. The problem is that most covers bands and duos start out as hobbying musicians, aiming to emulate precisely their favourite singers and bands. We want to be unique, right? We don’t want to emulate!
Check out ‘covers’ on YouTube, or maybe get down to your local open mic night. Sure, there’ll be some rubbish, and probably plenty of spotty teens, to scour through but sooner or later you’ll find a gem of an act who’ll do a great creative take on a track (remember the Ellie Goulding effect?). Approach them about doing a version of your chosen song(s). Creative musicians like a challenge, and if there’s some money in it, all the better!
2Close, an acoustic duo based in Lancashire have a couple of such little gems on Soundcloud (another great source of inspiration!). If you’re a little further afield, check out Yorkshire songstress Hannah-Rei for some truly astonishing vocals on some different takes of current chart hits.
Tip 5: Mix Up the Instruments
A simple way to make sure your music is unique is to use different instruments to those used on the music you’re using. Look for duos and trios with less common lead instruments (such as our piano and flute duo or our piano and violin duo); hearing them play your favourite rock song makes that song unique, and also softens the sound of it to fit in better with the surroundings of your wedding.
Tip 6: Avoid Entertainment Agencies
Don’t get us wrong, agencies have their place (and our musicians do use them). If you want an experienced band to play you some disco classics, they’ll be a good place to start. But agencies rely on acts who have mass appeal. There’s no way they’ll be interested in a quirky band playing niche music; they want human jukeboxes.
It’ll take a bit more searching – obviously, the big agencies take up the first few pages of Google – but eventually you’ll get to the websites of the bands themselves. Search for what you want. Search for song titles you’d like to be played. Search for instruments you’d like in the band. Listen to demos. If you’re looking for unique takes on the songs, or current chart hits but all in one style that you like, you’ll need to spend time finding it. But it’ll be worth the search when your guests realise that the soul song they’re listening to is actually ‘Sexy and I Know It’ and jump up to dance and sing along!
Tip 7: Bespoke Bands
If you still can’t find what you want, or endless searching isn’t your thing, you need our very own Bespoke Bands.
Dream Day Music is a collective of professional session musicians (with work for/alongside the likes of Seal, Craig David, Paloma Faith and Bryan Adams to their names). We put together ‘one-night-only’ bands to suit our client’s needs, for roughly the same price as a regular function band. The difference is you get to specify exactly what you want! Don’t compromise on YOUR big day!
Either let us know a budget and your preferences on the following points, and we’ll tell you how long we can arrange a band to play for, or tell us how long you want the band to play for, and we’ll give you a quote for that. People often specify the following:
- The style(s) of music
- Some songs to include
- The size / line-up of the band
- The appearance of the band
We source the (top quality) musicians, arrange the songs, rehearse the band etc., exactly to your specification. Your wedding band will be your dream band, exactly how you imagined it; no compromises! For more details and a price guide, see www.dreamdaymusic.co.uk
Tip 8: Unique Compositions
Consider commissioning a unique composition written to accompany your wedding. You’ll be able to choose the style, the instruments, the length, the lot! It’ll be like starring in your very own film with your very own musical soundtrack. A CD of the pieces would make a great little gift for mum or gran too!
Bespoke compositions can be played live, or pre-recorded to be played on CD or mp3 player by your venue. Depending on the length of the piece and the number of instruments, it might even be cheaper than booking musicians!
Check out Craig Smith Music for one such composer based in Preston, Lancashire.
Thanks for reading our blog! We hope it’s been inspirational and encouraged you to think a little more creatively about the use of music on your big day.
Dream Day Music is a collective of professional session musicians (we’re not an agency!) committed to improving the quality of events music, offering something different, and keeping costs down for our clients. Find out more at www.dreamdaymusic.co.uk.